Les – lessons earned not learned

Courage isn’t roaring. Courage is choosing to start again. In 1978, I had no idea what my life would become. I just knew I needed to change. And somehow, a big man with a big voice and a bigger heart helped me believe I still had a shot. Music can save a life, it saved […]

ICanHelpU.ca – and I will help anybody who asks

Sobriety taught me something most people never hear. Fear was never my punishment.It was my teacher. Fear humbled me.Fear pushed me toward God.Fear made surrender possible. Without fear, I don’t learn faith. I stuttered for most of my life.Every word carried risk.Every conversation had a price tag of uncertainty. So when I heard A Time […]

Thoughts for: 12/31/2025

I’ve coached men for decades. They always ask the same thing: Is there hope – Yes there is Find it here ICanHelpU.ca