We All Know Fear – Faith Is The Antidote
Sobriety taught me something most people never hear. Fear was never my punishment.It was my teacher. Fear humbled me.Fear pushed me toward God.Fear made surrender possible. Without fear, I don’t learn faith. I stuttered for most of my life.That meant fear wasn’t theoretical for me.It showed up in every conversation, every introduction, every moment of […]
Thoughts for: 01/04/2026
The first step isn’t admitting defeat. It’s admitting possibility. If you’re even 1% ready, reach out. ICanHelpU.ca
For Families Wondering What to Do Next
If you’re reading this, you’re probably worried about someone you love. You may be asking: Those are fair questions. Treatment centers save lives.They are sometimes absolutely necessary. But if your loved one is medically stable, detoxed, and willing to change,there may be another option worth considering. One-on-one recovery coaching focuses on: This approach works best […]
Thoughts for: 01/03/2026
Every breakthrough I’ve seen starts with five words: “I can’t do this alone.” If that’s you today, let’s talk. ICanHelpU.ca
Thoughts for: 01/02/2026
Stop negotiating with the problem. Start building the solution. If you don’t know where to begin, I do. ICanHelpU.ca
Thoughts for: 01/01/2026
You can’t outrun loneliness. I’ve tried. But you can walk out of it with help. ICanHelpU.ca
Les – lessons earned not learned
Courage isn’t roaring. Courage is choosing to start again. In 1978, I had no idea what my life would become. I just knew I needed to change. And somehow, a big man with a big voice and a bigger heart helped me believe I still had a shot. Music can save a life, it saved […]
ICanHelpU.ca – and I will help anybody who asks
Sobriety taught me something most people never hear. Fear was never my punishment.It was my teacher. Fear humbled me.Fear pushed me toward God.Fear made surrender possible. Without fear, I don’t learn faith. I stuttered for most of my life.Every word carried risk.Every conversation had a price tag of uncertainty. So when I heard A Time […]
Thoughts for: 12/31/2025
I’ve coached men for decades. They always ask the same thing: Is there hope – Yes there is Find it here ICanHelpU.ca
A Perfect Time for Heroes
People misunderstand the 12-step movement.They think it’s narrow. It isn’t.AA, OA, CA, GA, SA, Al-Anon – different doors, same room, same processThis process was started 90 years ago in a in Akron OHConservatively it now has over 200 offshootsWhat’s going on do you think? I can explain it to you It’s not just about stopping […]